Not having expectations, as others mentioned, is also key to reducing feelings of frustration. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. But the lies sting some people. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. But I do want to be with him. Do you and your girlfriend have any kind of plan for how you're going to manage your relationship while you're both in residency.




My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. Would I like to have him by my side. What is it like to become a doctor in your country. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. It's an issue I just have to live with if I want to be with him, and I do, so I live with it.
And you seem like a good person. None felt right, ever. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. If it's true, it'll come out of the criticism looking better.
This was the biggest one for me. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. You love a medical guy. I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. Joanna has written a good answer here. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. I have no kids with him I had one from a marriage before and I'm glad I have no kids with him now.